When the Tribeca Film Festival was running this year, I knew I had to go to at least one screening. I poured over the options and made my decision: I would go see the documentary The Genius of Marian. Chief among the reasons for my choice was that I felt somewhat connected to the subject matter.
A fitting tribute to mothers, The Genius of Marian is a beautiful new documentary about a son chronicling his mother’s struggles with Alzheimer’s. Pam White has been diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer’s. Her mother, artist Marian Steele, also suffered from the disease before her death.
The Genius of Marian functions on two levels: on one, there is Pam working on a book about her mother, a process with which her son, director Banker White, helps her; on the other, White makes the film as a tribute to his own mother, chronicling her struggle with the disease.
My grandmother suffered from dementia the last few years of her life. Although I know that Alzheimer’s and dementia aren’t quite the same thing, they are similar enough that I always feel as though I sort of understand Alzheimer’s stories.
I was a preteen when my grandmother started to have her problems. I remember what it was like for my mom to watch her mother slowly lose touch with the real world. Towards the end, my mom observed that my grandmother wasn’t really suffering; she had created her own world. It was those around her, who knew what she had been like before dementia, who were quietly suffering.
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